June 23, 2011

Normally I don't get all that excited about weekends. I work from home so it's not like I'm stuck in an office all week, nor do I commute. So weekends are much like any other day during the summer for me. This weekend we're celebrating my birthday though and it should be fun. I love getting out on the jetski and just going as fast I can over the water. It's sooooooo much fun and we're going to make a whole day of it.

I also got some sample packs of Boresha NuvoGene Tea today in the mail that I am really looking forward to trying. I recently learned that I am severely anemic and have to be more careful about how I eat and such. Which I was already actually doing anyway, but now I have to make even more changes. I'm not big on change at all and i'm certainly not happy to consider giving up coffee or tea. Not because those are necessarily bad, but because they taste better with sugar and cream. THOSE are the culprits. It's always the good stuff that will get ya.

So anyway, i'm gonna try this tea. It's a low glycemic,
fat burning tea and heaven knows I need me some energy. I haven't tried any of it yet but I did check out the website and so far i'm impressed. I'm considering ordering their Bskinny coffee. Coffee is my weakness. No one wants to be around me when I haven't had coffee. I also looooove latte's! Their Latte is low glycemic as well and all you have to add is water. No extra creamer or sugar. Sounds easy and healthier, but we'll see.

I also bought a bunch of Spinach today to start making spinach and egg white omelets for breakfast. Hopefully this will raise my iron levels and make me NOT have to take the iron supplements that make my stomach hurt so bad.

Sometimes beauty after 40 takes a lot of changes but being around to see my grandkids grow up will make it all worth it. Now if my kids would just get to making me some grandkids lol.

Nessa

June 22, 2011

With temps in the 100's.........I'm about ready to move to Alaska. The coldest part of it! We've already had temps over 100 this year and we've had little or no rain in months. I'm sure many of you have heard about the wildfires we are currently plagued with and I have to say it's scary. We're literally surrounded by huge wildfires and even this awesome rain we've had today isn't enough to put them out. In fact fires are still starting even today from people burning trash.

Anyway, one of the things we're planning to do in the next week or so is invest in a pool. We can't always get to the lake, but we can always go out to the back yard. It won't exactly be cheap initially but in the long run the money we spend on gas and drinks going to the lake will be saved by having the pool to cool off in. So it only makes sense to go for it. We've gotten some estimates and we have a good idea of what it will cost so the next steps are committing to it. Always easier said than done.

Part of our estimates involved making sure we could afford all the accessories needed. Skimmers, chemicals, pool covers due to all the trees we have in the back yard and toys and floats as well. It's a big expense that's for sure. All I keep telling myself though is "when you're laying on a float in the pool looking up at the sky with a book in one hand and a margarita in the other, it'll all be worth it". And it sooooooo will!

Nessa

June 21, 2011

Yesterday was my birthday. Before any of you smartbutts ask, no, the candles from my cake didn't start any of the fires. I didn't even have cake yet. We're celebrating my birthday this coming Saturday at the lake. I can't wait! I really need a day of fun in the sun on the jet ski's and the boat. We're taking both of the jet ski's, the boat and a small barbecue pit out to an island on the lake and we're just going to make a day of it. It's going to be an awesome day and i deserve it!

As for the fires........it's no laughing matter at all. It's so dry and unless we get a hurricane or a miracle there's really no relief in sight. It's supposed to rain a few days this week finally, but so far it's rained for about 10 minutes and not where the fires are burning. It's certainly not enough to prevent fires anywhere else that did manage to get any of it. Hopefully, something will give soon and God will see fit to bless Texas with some rain.

When we went to Lake Houston a few weeks ago, I was shocked at how far down the lake really is. This picture was taken at one of our favorite little islands last year. See the branch next to the jet ski?


This is the exact same island this year: The branch in this picture is the same one that was in the pic above that we tied the jet ski to all last summer.


Because it's so low, we're going to have to go to Lake Livingston which makes none of us especially happy, but at least the lake hasn't been affected by the drought.

So far the fires have destroyed many homes and buildings. I hate to see so many lives being torn apart by carelessness and sometimes just plain accidents. One of the fires was literally started by a bad wheel bearing on a trailer being pulled down the highway. So people please try to be as careful as possible and pray that Texas gets some relief very very soon!

Nessa

Written by Fermin Washington

For my birthday last year, my parents told me they would buy anything I wanted for my house. I had recently become a first-time homeowner and there were a lot of things I needed but my budget just didn't stretch that far. My mother suggested getting a bunch of kitchen supplies, but that wasn't the first thing on my list. What I actually knew from the time I spent on http://www.homesecurity101.com was that I wanted a home security system to make me feel safer when I was home alone. All I had to do was tell my dad about it, and I knew he would want nothing more than to ensure my safety. After all, I'm his only daughter and I'm definitely daddy's little girl! I really appreciate how supportive my parents have been throughout this whole process and I feel much better knowing they are behind me if I ever need them. A girl couldn't ask for a better family than I have in my life right now.

June 16, 2011

I was soooooo excited when I saw an advertisement on XBOX 360 saying that I could now watch some of my favorite shows through my xbox 360 by using Hulu Plus. I signed up immediately thinking that along with Netflix this was going to ease a great deal of my "looking for something on TV issues". At first it did. I got to catch up on the last season of Law and Order:SVU and I got to watch a couple others as well. Then........nada. See, apparently, for free, you can watch many of your favorite shows online. With Hulu Plus, you can only watch certain shows through your xbox and you have to pay for the privilege of being frustrated when most of what you want to watch through the Xbox says "web only". Which means for free...........you can watch them on your computer.


Now I don't claim to be a genius or anything, well, no wait. I do, but that's because I am, but not about everything. Like rockets, math, the weather, those stupid peepee teepee's, the way men think, etc. You get the point. When it comes to saving money, I know what i'm talking about, because lets face it, I'm no rich b*tch. Anyway, the whole point is, why in the world should users pay for the very small convenience of being able to watch a FEW shows on their tv, that they can watch online for free using the exact same service? sure you have to watch a few ads, but guess what? You have to watch those ads on HULU Plus as well. So you're not gaining anything by paying a monthly fee, you're actually getting less.

I think maybe that Hulu is on to something but they're not quite there yet. If I miss a show on Monday night and I can watch it on Hulu PLus on Tuesday through the xbox, that's not bad at all. That is actually possible now, but there are so few current shows to choose from, that there's just no point paying for it. It seems like they decided to try to take on Netflix, but right now Netflix has nothing to worry about. I'm a big fan of Netflix and I'd be lost without it. They have far more television shows, movies and documentaries for one price that can be watched both online and over the xbox for the same price. I understand that there is a licensing/permission issue but frankly I feel that Hulu should have waited just a bit longer to roll out a better product. Right now the fact that I actually paid for a full month of service and only got to use it 3 days, leaves a pretty bad taste in my mouth.

Buh Bye Hulu Plus, email me when Netflix really has some competition.

Nessa

***This post was not paid for by any company, it is my own opinion on a service I used and unfortunately paid for***

June 15, 2011

Have you ever wanted to be someone else? Do you ever long to escape reality for just a little while? Would you like to be able to play games, chat with friends, meet other like minded individuals and do it all from the comfort of your home? If so, join Seducity for more fun than you can shake a stick at.

Seducity is an adult virtual world where anything goes. You can be Gothic, You can be a fairy. You can be fashionable. You can be yourself, or exactly the opposite, no matter what that may be. One of the best things about this virtual world is how accepting it is. Gay, Straight, Goth, "normal", they all exist together in a fun and friendly atmosphere. All members are over 18 so you don't have to worry about feeling as if you need to babysit other people's children as in other virtual worlds or have to worry that you could be chatting up someone that's under age.

There are many ways in which you can customize your avatar. Here are just a few different looks.


Not only can you decorate yourself, you can also decorate your own apartments or "turf".

You can start with something like this:

And end with this:


One great feature of Seducity is the games. Members and staff host games throughout the day like Yahtzee, Slingo, Bingo and many others. There are prizes for winners and door prizes as well just for coming to play. Not only are the games fun and easy to play but they are also a great way to meet other members and have fun.

One of the most interesting features of Seducity is the adult nature available in this particular virtual world. Seducity offers a sexual exploration not offered in other places online. There are many ways in which to do this including not only avatar sex, but also the opportunity to learn about alternate lifestyles without actually having to participate in real life or worry about any embarrassment. Seducity's sexual side is a bonus for those who wish to explore it, however this isn't a free for all orgy or anything even close. Members are never asked to participate in anything sexual, though there are often game prizes and events with sexual connotations attached. All members choose the level in which they wish to participate and others respect it. Sex is an option, not the rule.

Overall, Seducity is a fun virtual world that is easy to understand and have fun in. Members and Staff are more than willing to show newbies around and help them out as well as give them tokens (in world currency) to get them started. There are married couples, some who actually met in Seducity and got married both in world and in real life, dating couples and singles. Like this guy. He's not the only one though.

Would you like to try it out first? Seducity offers a free 2 week trial with full functionality to test it out. Joining has never been easier and you'll love the many ways available to customize your experience. Don't be shy...........join now. New friends await!

Nessa

***Please Note*** The above blog post was written by me for my other blog entitled "According to Nessa". I have given myself permission to repost it on this blog as it is my creation.

No, really, its true. Today I am trying to catch up with a million different things and when I looked at the calendar , it reminded me I needed to check and see if the Comfort Cross winners had received their cross as of yet.

Sooooooooo, I went to look up who the winners were and well.........uhhhhhhhh...........that's when my idiot alarm started dinging. See...........we had 2 people enter. So it was pretty clear who won. That being the case, I went ahead and prepared a winners post, directed google when to post it and left for the weekend. Because of my settings, the winners would have been notified next year. Yep, I set it for 2012. Aye Aye aye.

I kept wondering why I didn't hear back.........I guess I know why now huh?
Anyway, the winners are obviously, Small Town Mommy and Little Tiny Love. I'll be contacting you both directly and I apologize for the error. You can both feel free to beat me, but only with a wet noodle lol.
Nessa

June 9, 2011

It's true! Just when I think I have a set pattern........things change. Since I last posted, I have had pneumonia, I've gone and visited with old friends, I have been working, found out some interesting secrets about my ex boyfriend and most of all I've just been in a funk.
Actually funk might not be the best word. At first, when I discovered my little brother, DJ, died from Pneumonia and not SIDS, I felt lied to and betrayed. Then I felt a tremendous amount of regret. I'm told I loved my little brother immensely. I was 2, so lets face it, I don't remember anything. What I have been told my entire life is an absolute lie and where I was sad, I became mad and now I think i'm learning to understand and try to forgive.
What I was told:
My little brother died because our "shack" was too cold with little to no heating and that my little brother was not in any way sick, but that because he was a baby, he could have been wrapped too tightly in the blanket for warmth and that could have contributed to his death. In this story, my Father is a lazy bum, who refused to work and because of this our housing was substandard, making my brother's death his fault.
The truth, or what I can prove anyway:
My little brother passed away June 4th, 1971 in Corpus Christi, Texas. He was sick. He was 6 months old and he was sick. Period. That's what the medical examiners report says and since he had no reason to lie, that's who I believe. Here is the newspaper article in black and white:SIDS existed back then and that's not how he ruled it in either this news clipping or the actual death certificate and autopsy report. Besides all that....i know weather patterns change, but I am fairly certain that In June, in Corpus, heat is not and has never been a concern.
The conclusion:
At first I was livid. All I could think of is how someone could lose their baby and use it as an opportunity to run someone else down and make it their fault. It hurt me more than I can ever explain to search property records for the time, to see the dates and and realize, there was no truth to anything except that he existed and then he was gone. I decided that because of the horrendous lies that maybe my little brother was never really loved and was probably unwanted or neglected and that's why the lies came to be. I decided they were a cover up for the truth.
Now........after talking to some parents who have lost their children........I think I might have discovered more of the truth. A child's death is something you cannot comprehend unless you live through it. There are self recriminations that can be completely true or totally unfounded that a parent puts themself through. "Did I do something wrong?". "Should I have gone to bed when I did?", "Did I do enough?", " Did I do too little?", "Who else can I blame?".
That last question is where my story becomes painful. I don't remember anything. My brother could have been very well taken care of but he died anyway and in an effort to grieve, in an effort to try to go on, my Father became the scapegoat years later.
I don't know if he was a bad Father back then. I know later he wasn't given a chance to be one to me and my sisters. What I also know is that in June, in Corpus Christi..........it's not cold. I know that in a very detailed search of property records, the house we lived in proved to be perfectly adequate housing. In an employment search, I show my Father has worked most of his life, So in my estimation, My Father is cleared of blame and because of what I have learned from other grieving parents, so is my Mother.
I'm still angry over the lies, but i think I understand better and i'm working on the forgiveness part.
Over the past weekend, I released balloons. One for each of us. My Mother, My Father, Myself, My Brother and my 3 sisters, Traci, Becki and Shannah. I wanted to show a family united by love and healing even if it's only through a wish rather than reality and it felt good. As the balloons floated away I felt more peaceful and hopeful that someday things could be as they should. Truthful and without unnecessary pain. I hope DJ smiled that sweet little smile and knew he was loved.


Nessa

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